In class we talked about children.  The decision on how many children to have is between a husband, wife and the Lord.  No one should judge anyone on how many kids they choose to have or how long they wait to have children.  This is none of their business.  This is a very personal matter for the couple and the Lord to discuss.  We should never put couples on the spot about how many kids they are going to have or when they are going to have children because it's not about them.