Same sex attraction is a touchy subject.  It's not gays, or lesbians, it's "Same sex attraction".  We need to make sure that we don't judge.  That's step number one.  Not judging people will help us personally more than the person we were going to judge. We can still be friends with them and love them.  They have a weakness just like all of us.  We just have different weaknesses here on earth.